Why Every Filipino Should Plan and Talk About Death

In many Filipino homes, the topic of death is often avoided. Some consider it bad luck, while others find it too painful to discuss. But just like birth, death is a natural part of life. And talking about it openly and early can be one of the kindest acts of love you offer your family. 

Planning for death doesn’t mean you expect it to happen soon. It means you care enough to ease the burden for those you’ll leave behind. 

Why It’s Hard for Filipinos to Talk About Death 

Without a plan, the emotional weight of loss is made heavier by last-minute decisions and financial strain. Here’s what can happen when nothing is discussed or arranged: 

• Family members may disagree over funeral or burial decisions 

• Unexpected costs can overwhelm your loved ones 

• Legal issues, including property division, may be delayed 

• Emotions run high, and misunderstandings can cause lasting rifts 

  
  

No family should face these difficulties without guidance.  Planning is not just practical—it’s compassionate. 

Planning Ahead Is a Final Act of Love  

Planning in advance is not morbid; it’s thoughtful. It gives your family clarity, comfort, and peace of mind when they need it most. 

Here are a few ways to start: 

• Write down your wishes or create a simple will 

• Decide between cremation or burial 

• Set aside savings or choose flexible, affordable options 

• Have an open conversation with your family 

  
  

Even a short conversation today can make a world of difference tomorrow. 

Let’s Change the Way We View Death   

Talking about death doesn’t mean giving up—it means taking control. It lets you decide how you want to be remembered and ensures that your farewell reflects your values and beliefs. 

Planning ahead allows you to: 

• Make sure your final wishes are respected 

• Reduce pressure on your loved ones 

• Leave behind a meaningful legacy 

  
  

Think of it as writing the final chapter of your life—your way. 

Break the Silence—Let’s Talk About It Together 

Death is part of life, and preparing for it is one of the most loving things we can do for our families. Let’s have the courage to start these conversations and make them a normal part of Filipino family life. 

Our families deserve more than uncertainty and fear. They deserve peace, clarity, and a meaningful farewell. 

Begin with Care, Plan with Love 

At Dearly Departed, we’re here to help you take that first step with compassion and care. Whether you're planning or just starting to think about it, we offer guidance every step of the way. 

Learn more at www.dearlydeparted.care. Prefer to talk to someone? Message us on Facebook or Instagram—we’re here to listen. 

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